Tricks to make yourself more likeable
We all want to be the most likable one among people. Whether it is with friends, while meeting someone for the first time, thinking about whether they like you, or not goes on in our mind throughout the time. Few simple things can do the trick making everyone like you even more, just be patient and focused.
Here is how you can do it
You have one mouth and two ears for a reason. Talk less and listen to your friends more. You might be the chatty one but once in a while it is essential for you to sit back tight and just listen. Give that little mouth of yours a break and be more attentive. Listen to what they have to say, let them complete, allow them to say a thing or two and you will be surprised to see the change.
Making fun of others is fun but you need to make a joke or two on yourself as well. This looses up the tension working as the icebreaker and allowing others to see you as the confident kind.
When you are not confident about yourself, it shows in your gestures and you end up saying something really stupid. Skip it by trusting yourself and having a little confidence.
If you are meeting someone for the first time or seeing your friends after a long time, start the conversation with fun topic or a fact. You can avoid geeky facts or the ones, which no one is interested in.
Giving a one or two compliments about the way they are looking or the apparel they are wearing and being genuine in that compliment can make them like you more. If you are seeing them after a long time, be enthusiastic but don’t go over the top.
Here is how you can do it
Talk less, listen more
You have one mouth and two ears for a reason. Talk less and listen to your friends more. You might be the chatty one but once in a while it is essential for you to sit back tight and just listen. Give that little mouth of yours a break and be more attentive. Listen to what they have to say, let them complete, allow them to say a thing or two and you will be surprised to see the change.
Make fun of yourself along with others
Making fun of others is fun but you need to make a joke or two on yourself as well. This looses up the tension working as the icebreaker and allowing others to see you as the confident kind.
Be confident about yourself
When you are not confident about yourself, it shows in your gestures and you end up saying something really stupid. Skip it by trusting yourself and having a little confidence.
Start a fun conversation
If you are meeting someone for the first time or seeing your friends after a long time, start the conversation with fun topic or a fact. You can avoid geeky facts or the ones, which no one is interested in.
Give compliments with a little enthusiasm
Giving a one or two compliments about the way they are looking or the apparel they are wearing and being genuine in that compliment can make them like you more. If you are seeing them after a long time, be enthusiastic but don’t go over the top.
Lots of Love!!!
XOXO
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